Another guy who doesn’t turn me on, but may work for you.
This “hotness is in the eye of the beholder” stuff is really true, and it says more about the person giving the compliment than it does about the receiver. I can shower, shave, dress up nice or whatever, but I have no control over whether or not the object of my desire feels mutually. When I get cruised by somebody I find uninteresting, I try to be polite in my rejection. I’m reminded about the movie, “As Good As It Gets”, where Simon Bishop (Greg Kinnear) tells Melvin Udall (Jack Nicholson), “I love you.” Melvin replies, “If that worked for me, I’d be the happiest man alive” (or something like that). I usually say something like, “I wish I felt the same; if I did I could get laid.”